If She Can’t Provide These, Don’t Take Her Serious
Women today often have high standards: they want a man who is a millionaire, tall, dark, with a car, an apartment, and so on. Yet, many of these women have little to offer in return. In fact, some are liabilities.
Men, it’s time to start demanding more. If you don’t, you’ll continue to struggle in your relationships and marriages. You need to set standards too.
Qualities of Marriage Material Woman
First, a woman must have a clean past. If she doesn’t, don’t let her near you. Some of you are dating women with high body counts, or those who have been involved in transactional relationships. If you’re a man who has worked hard to improve your life, why would you want to end up with a woman who doesn’t respect herself or you?
Imagine being with a woman who’s slept with multiple men, and now you’re dating her. When your friends have been with her in the past, it damages your image. Humans don’t forget, and they’ll see you as a joke. While some women claim “the past is the past,” they care deeply about your present and future. So why date someone who hasn’t valued their past?
Next, she must offer feminine energy. If she can’t respect, listen, or learn from you, why be with her? Some of you are dating women who argue, dominate, and try to control you. These women are full of masculine energy. A woman who doesn’t submit or support you emotionally is not worth your time. A true partnership involves mutual respect and balance.
Also, a woman should add value to your life. Relationships should be mutually beneficial. If she’s only there to take from you—money, gifts, etc.—she’s not the one. A woman who loves you will always look for ways to support and uplift you, not just drain you emotionally and financially.
Respect is also crucial. If a woman doesn’t respect you, throw her out of your life. Women demand much from men, but without respect, the relationship is doomed. If she disrespects you, it’s often because you’ve allowed it. Command respect, and you won’t tolerate anything less.
Emotional stability is another key factor. Some women are emotionally damaged, with mood swings, manipulative behavior, and constant complaints. If you’re constantly trying to make her happy, you’ll only make yourself miserable. Don’t settle for someone who brings emotional chaos into your life.
Loyalty is non-negotiable. A woman should make you feel secure that no other man can have access to her. If you’re dating someone who belongs to the streets, you’ll never have peace. Don’t ignore the red flags; they’re usually there early on.
Lastly, a woman must carry herself well in public. Her behavior reflects on you. If she embarrasses you in public or lacks manners, it damages your reputation. You want a woman who represents you with grace, not one who tarnishes your image. The public will say, look at his girlfriend, look at his wife. Remember, she will be carrying your surname. She should represent you with dignity and respect. If she behaves recklessly or embarrasses you in public, it reflects poorly on you. Imagine your wife fighting in public or acting inappropriately. Her actions don’t just affect her; they damage your reputation.
Men, demand these things before taking any woman seriously. Otherwise, you’ll end up paying the price for your choices.
What are your thoughts on this issue?
Thank you.
Kelvin.